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You Have Got To Have a Dream: Happy Talk

It was 1995 when I first encountered the Happy Talk song from the 1958 musical South Pacific. I loved it right away.

GOLDZONE Relationship Week > Paris 2017

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Feb 8 to 15, 2017 – Paris, France

7-Day Vacation-Seminar

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Most highly successful people would agree that their primary relationship is one of the most important areas of life – and yet few people take the time to nurture, connect, and renew their relationship.

Singles often don’t take the time to manifest the relationship of their dreams, bouncing from one person to another.

10 Blocks To Intimacy

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Most people want more intimacy in their relationships… but very few know how to create it. Without intimacy, even the best relationships can feel empty, distant, and unfulfilling.

We often mistake chemistry for connection, moving from one relationship to another… without realizing that we are the common element. The truth is, intimacy isn’t about luck, chemistry, or finding “the right person.” It’s about removing the blocks that keep us from being fully seen, known, and loved.

When you clear these blocks, intimacy becomes natural. Walls come down, hearts open up, and you experience deeper trust, connection, and fulfillment.

Here are the 10 Blocks to Intimacy that keep most people stuck…

10 Blocks to Intimacy:

  1. Lack of inspiring examples and successful role models.
  2. Lack of trust and fear of losing control.
  3. Attachment to one’s “Act, Ego, Mask,” and afraid of showing the “Real You.”
  4. Unresolved past lapses in ethics by self and others.
  5. Fear of being rejected and hurt again.
  6. Unresolved hurt and blame from past relationships.
  7. Attachment to being dominant, the boss, or in charge.
  8. Confusing physical/sexual with emotional closeness.
  9. Keeping secrets that you are afraid others will discover.
  10. Withholding and not wanting to give.


Each of these 10 blocks shows up as a zone of limitation. Some people live in the Brownzone of Denial, saying, “I don’t need this” or “That doesn’t apply to me.” Others cycle through the Redzone of reactivity, the Orangezone of control and resistance, or the Yellowzone of status and dominance. The truth is, these zones keep us from the very intimacy we desire. Real breakthroughs happen when we rise above denial, fear, and ego… into the Greenzone of enthusiasm, the Bluezone of creativity and joy, and ultimately the Goldzone of authentic love and connection.

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If you’re ready to dissolve the hidden blocks that keep you distant from true intimacy… in love, leadership, and life… join us at the next Goldzone Masterclass. In this immersive experience, you’ll learn how to identify your current zone, clear what’s in your way, and step into deeper trust, openness, and connection. This is your pathway into the Goldzone… where intimacy, greatness, and fulfillment become a lifestyle.

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Your #1 Asset

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75-Year Study: Good Relationships Keep Us Happier and Healthier

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Ask most young people what they want from life and they will tell you money and fame. Landmark 75-year study of what actually matters reveals lessons that aren’t about wealth or fame or working harder and harder. The clearest message that we get is this:

“Good relationships keep us happier and healthier.”

The study reveals the following lessons about relationships:

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Musing about romance
what is it?

Why do so many people associate romance
with sex?

Sensual, sexual, love and affection
These can include romance…

…but they are not substitutes for romance

When you hear an English speaker say it
the sound falls flat

Quality of Relationship = Quality of Life

“Most of what we learn about a relationship is by default, accepting mediocrity, disconnection and unhappiness instead of designing a relationship that fulfills, inspires and brings limitless joy, connection, and intimacy to both partners.”

ryrWhat would happen if you allocated more time to the renewal and regeneration of your relationship? or, if you are single, to prepare yourself for your next relationship?

Most people don’t realize that the quality of your relationships = the quality of your life! There is a direct correlation between a person’s level of happiness, success, financial prosperity, overall wellbeing and their primary relationship.

Romance: Three Definitions

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Money or Relationship: Symptom or Cause?

We have all heard it before. When a relationship fails, it is often stated that money problems caused the failure.

In many cases this is true, one partner loses their job or runs up unknown debts, which leads to relationship disharmony and eventually breakup or divorce. But what if there were a rarely discussed, often avoided cause that preceded the symptoms and was in fact the “real” culprit?

Your Primary Relationship Sets the Tone

Your primary relationship influences and often sets the tone for all other relationships in life… at work, partners, friends, clients, etc. IT ALSO DETERMINES HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE FINANCIALLY.

Most people don’t realize that the quality of their relationships = the quality of their lives. There is a direct correlation between a person’s level of happiness, success, financial prosperity, overall well-being and their primary relationship…

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